Why is it that for most people to become a better person, to change their views of the world and themselves and grow, they have to go through an experience that simply rocks their world and shakes the foundation of something they hold dear?
People don’t listen when someone says…
This is bad for you…
This is what you need…
Things would be better if…
People, I think by nature, do for themselves and learn the lesson the hard way.
In the past few weeks… i have learned a lot about myself, about my own insecurities and fears, and about human nature. I am no longer the same girl i was two weeks ago and I am not sure I would want to be. I have grown, changed and learned some very valuable lessons about me, who I am, and what my desires and boundaries are.
I am still thinking, feeling, and healing, from the past weeks, and will be for sometime. But in the long run… i am better, stronger, and wiser for the experience.
Everything happens in life for a reason… even the painful things. They are all meant to help us grow and be the best person you can be.
The storm has slowed, the rain is blowing steadily passed, and I am looking up to see the bright and colorful rainbow before me.
Hugs and Kisses,